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How to write a Good Online Lesbian Personal...
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When signing up at an internet dating site, you'll need to create a member profile and describe who you are and the types of girls that you want to get to know. Writing a good online personal ad can determine whether or not you ever find love through a dating site.
Below are some easy-to-remember tips on how to write a good profile in order to attract the type of lesbians you want to meet.
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Write a Catchy Title
The title or headline is the first thing people will see when they scan the personals. Try to grab their attention with your title. Use humor, but be positive. Instead of posting, "Butch? Broke? Bye-Bye!" post, "Brains? Beauty? Bring It!"
Write your Introductory Paragraph
Be Honest: Don't say you value honesty and then lie. Be honest, but don't list all your flaws right away. Also, don't reveal everything about yourself. Leave something to talk about together.
Be Positive: Say the things you value and want in a relationship. Don't just make a list of everything that was wrong with your last relationship and say you don't want that. A good example: "I'm looking for a smart, sexy lipstick lesbian." A bad example: "I'm not into goth chicks that are out to get me."
Be Unique: Almost everyone likes going to the movies or relaxing to their favorite music. Say something that's different about you. For example, "I don't get naked on first dates. I just fantasize that I do."
Be Specific: Try to be specific about what qualities you are looking for in a girl. If you want a sexy girl, then don't say you want a nice girl. If you are looking for both qualities in a girl, then say so.
Add a Personal Touch: Profiles that show personality will attract more attention than those that just list personal qualities you are looking for. Add your own commentary. Give some insight into what makes you tick and what motivates or inspires you. If you appreciate a girl with a good sense of humor, then describe what makes you laugh!
Post a Photo
Most of us are motivated by visual cues, especially in personals. We want to see who we're reading about. Personals with photos will almost always gather more responses than those without, so don't be camera shy. Post a photo with your profile. You can also post extra photos and videos. If your personal ad sounds generic or similar to others, a picture can provide a good way for other girls to remember you.
General Suggestions
Keep It Current: Update your profile every so often. Post a recent photo. Remember to remove any outdated information. For example, the statement, "I wanna build a snowwoman with a hottie" doesn't inspire responses in the middle of July! Also, if you've met someone, don't forget to take your ad down (unless you prefer multiple partners)!
Invite a Response: Pose questions in a blog: "What are your favorite kissing ideas?" or "Who was your first female crush?" Also, invite people to email. Present your questions in such a way that will invite girls to respond.
Get Friendly Advice: Ask your friends for feedback on your profile. They're probably less shy about touting your fabulous qualities and can help spice things up.
Check for Errors: Double check your profile for spelling and grammar mistakes. You want to present yourself as a girl with an IQ, not just with an ICQ. You can always write your profile in Microsoft Word and perform a spell check. Then just copy and paste your text into your online profile.
Remember to just have fun! Also, don't set your expectations too high, and you won't be setting yourself up for disappointment.
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